Comments on: 2B Proud of OR 2B Ashamed of!!!! http://www.bholibhali.com/2008/09/sharmindagi-ya-proudness/ BholiBhali Baatein Mere Mann Ki... Sat, 31 Jul 2010 14:12:39 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: masood http://www.bholibhali.com/2008/09/sharmindagi-ya-proudness/#comment-161 masood Thu, 13 Nov 2008 15:16:14 +0000 http://www.bholibhali.com/?p=118#comment-161 Assalamu Alaikum, bholi bhali. Ab bas, sis. Ajaao wapis, we miss you a lot. Nadia and I always remember you in every conversation, may Allah subhanawata'la give you a good health and make you more strong..Aameen. Please come back. <abbr><em>masoods last blog post..<a href="http://masoodmemon.wordpress.com/2008/11/13/take-control-of-your-day-with-these-10-time-management-skills/" rel="nofollow">Take control of your day with these 10 time management skills</a></em></abbr> ********************************* <strong><em>Awwww Masood bhai that sos sweet, made me teary :) Thanx so much for itni duayien, I was just sent on vacation by Allah, hmmm hopefully that wont happend again InshAllah! Allah bless you and Nadia sis with lots of happiness, Ameen :) ~BholiBhali</em></strong> Assalamu Alaikum, bholi bhali.

Ab bas, sis. Ajaao wapis, we miss you a lot. Nadia and I always remember you in every conversation, may Allah subhanawata’la give you a good health and make you more strong..Aameen. Please come back.

masoods last blog post..Take control of your day with these 10 time management skills
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Awwww Masood bhai that sos sweet, made me teary :) Thanx so much for itni duayien, I was just sent on vacation by Allah, hmmm hopefully that wont happend again InshAllah! Allah bless you and Nadia sis with lots of happiness, Ameen :)

~BholiBhali

]]> By: Maria http://www.bholibhali.com/2008/09/sharmindagi-ya-proudness/#comment-158 Maria Fri, 24 Oct 2008 11:27:02 +0000 http://www.bholibhali.com/?p=118#comment-158 Bohat zabardast kaam kya hai aap ne. Weldone <abbr><em>Marias last blog post..<a href="http://aboutislamandmuslims.blogspot.com/2008/10/quran-and-world-peace.html" rel="nofollow">Quran and World Peace</a></em></abbr> ************************************* <em><strong>Thanx so much Maria :) And welcome.. Be blessed! ~BholiBhali</strong></em> Bohat zabardast kaam kya hai aap ne.
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Marias last blog post..Quran and World Peace
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Thanx so much Maria :) And welcome.. Be blessed!

~BholiBhali

]]> By: Abdul. http://www.bholibhali.com/2008/09/sharmindagi-ya-proudness/#comment-153 Abdul. Thu, 02 Oct 2008 14:10:38 +0000 http://www.bholibhali.com/?p=118#comment-153 Eid mubarak bholibhali :) Eid mubarak bholibhali :)

]]> By: aarzoo http://www.bholibhali.com/2008/09/sharmindagi-ya-proudness/#comment-152 aarzoo Wed, 01 Oct 2008 17:25:51 +0000 http://www.bholibhali.com/?p=118#comment-152 NIce subject once again bholbhali...n i do pity such mom's who think like that...do u think wilait main apni beti ko dene se zimmedari khatm..what security do u have ke that boy is suitable n is of good character...just for the green card sauda kar diya apni bachi ka nomatter what happens with her later..i have seen shattered girls coming back with broken heart..n my heart really goes to them. no we have so many options to earn in india/pakistan to earn..better to marry our girls with the boys who r settled in their respective country...ankhon ke samne to rahenge aur ache bure main sath to rahega. Thanks for bringing this topic to our notice ..waiting for more such topics. bless u n eid mubarak..Allah sab ki duain kubool karain..Ameen <abbr><em>aarzoos last blog post..<a href="http://precious-soul.com/?p=322" rel="nofollow">“Aarzoo” Eid usee din mire ghar hoti hai</a></em></abbr> NIce subject once again bholbhali…n i do pity such mom’s who think like that…do u think wilait main apni beti ko dene se zimmedari khatm..what security do u have ke that boy is suitable n is of good character…just for the green card sauda kar diya apni bachi ka nomatter what happens with her later..i have seen shattered girls coming back with broken heart..n my heart really goes to them.

no we have so many options to earn in india/pakistan to earn..better to marry our girls with the boys who r settled in their respective country…ankhon ke samne to rahenge aur ache bure main sath to rahega.

Thanks for bringing this topic to our notice ..waiting for more such topics.

bless u n eid mubarak..Allah sab ki duain kubool karain..Ameen

aarzoos last blog post..“Aarzoo” Eid usee din mire ghar hoti hai

]]> By: nadia http://www.bholibhali.com/2008/09/sharmindagi-ya-proudness/#comment-151 nadia Mon, 29 Sep 2008 20:57:39 +0000 http://www.bholibhali.com/?p=118#comment-151 <strong>Eid Mubarak!</strong> <abbr><em>nadias last blog post..<a href="http://thepurplejournal.wordpress.com/2008/09/30/eid-mubarak/" rel="nofollow">Eid Mubarak!</a></em></abbr> Eid Mubarak!

nadias last blog post..Eid Mubarak!

]]> By: Wakas Mir http://www.bholibhali.com/2008/09/sharmindagi-ya-proudness/#comment-150 Wakas Mir Mon, 29 Sep 2008 12:50:18 +0000 http://www.bholibhali.com/?p=118#comment-150 well what you mentioned yaseen is a common thing sadly.. but majority of girls who want to live their life properly as per those who are voicing their opinion want someone who cares and loves them.. money isn’t an issue.. <abbr><em>Wakas Mirs last blog post..<a href="http://www.wakasmir.com/2008/09/backbiting-and-how-it-affects-us/" rel="nofollow">Backbiting and how it affects us</a></em></abbr> well what you mentioned yaseen is a common thing sadly.. but majority of girls who want to live their life properly as per those who are voicing their opinion want someone who cares and loves them.. money isn’t an issue..

Wakas Mirs last blog post..Backbiting and how it affects us

]]> By: yaseen ch http://www.bholibhali.com/2008/09/sharmindagi-ya-proudness/#comment-148 yaseen ch Sun, 28 Sep 2008 14:49:51 +0000 http://www.bholibhali.com/?p=118#comment-148 well, our girls still lack the ability to tale stand even for their life. They just go crazy after a man with money but come in parents home in 3 -4 years by divorce. common. well, our girls still lack the ability to tale stand even for their life. They just go crazy after a man with money but come in parents home in 3 -4 years by divorce. common.

]]> By: masood http://www.bholibhali.com/2008/09/sharmindagi-ya-proudness/#comment-145 masood Sun, 21 Sep 2008 07:39:24 +0000 http://www.bholibhali.com/?p=118#comment-145 "Allah muaf kare………. and aise logon ki tamanna ko waise “Auntiyan” poora kar deti hain!"...LOL!I like this line and it's indeed true.. In Deccan Hyderabad the poor muslim families use to give their daughters to old shaikh's from UAE, Saudi, Kuwait or you can say the Gulf shaikh's as these shaikh's doesn't want to pay huge mehar money in their countries to brides. Lekin I hate those parents jo kuch bhi nahi sochtey apni aulaad ke barey main unko bas yehi fikar hoti hai key ye larki wala bojh kiskey sar pey dalein and in this misconception they ruin girl's lives.. Alhmdulillah there is such thing has been stopped upto some extent but we need to make them understand the superiority of daughter's in Islam. May Allah guide us all on right path.........Aameen! <abbr><em>masoods last blog post..<a href="http://masoodmemon.wordpress.com/2008/09/21/laylatul-qadr/" rel="nofollow">Laylatul Qadr!</a></em></abbr> “Allah muaf kare………. and aise logon ki tamanna ko waise “Auntiyan” poora kar deti hain!”…LOL!I like this line and it’s indeed true.. In Deccan Hyderabad the poor muslim families use to give their daughters to old shaikh’s from UAE, Saudi, Kuwait or you can say the Gulf shaikh’s as these shaikh’s doesn’t want to pay huge mehar money in their countries to brides. Lekin I hate those parents jo kuch bhi nahi sochtey apni aulaad ke barey main unko bas yehi fikar hoti hai key ye larki wala bojh kiskey sar pey dalein and in this misconception they ruin girl’s lives.. Alhmdulillah there is such thing has been stopped upto some extent but we need to make them understand the superiority of daughter’s in Islam. May Allah guide us all on right path………Aameen!

masoods last blog post..Laylatul Qadr!

]]> By: AamirRaz http://www.bholibhali.com/2008/09/sharmindagi-ya-proudness/#comment-143 AamirRaz Fri, 19 Sep 2008 07:25:13 +0000 http://www.bholibhali.com/?p=118#comment-143 'Walait' isnt that bad...but not in the way the mentioned 'aunty' has it. Waisy bhi 'Bahir' ka bhoot buhat logo~ par sawar hai...what we need is sm exorcist :) <abbr><em>AamirRazs last blog post..<a href="http://mespeaks.wordpress.com/2008/09/19/let-the-sunlight-in/" rel="nofollow">“Let the sunlight in.”</a></em></abbr> ****************************** <em><strong>Welcome to my blog :) And who said walait is bad? :P hehe We been living her since ages so kam se kam we cant say that, but yea those type "Auntiyan" are way to unfair... Hmmm..rightly said bahir ka "bhoot" :P "Bhoot" does lots of damage sometimes... Be blessed! ~BholiBhali</strong></em> ‘Walait’ isnt that bad…but not in the way the mentioned ‘aunty’ has it.

Waisy bhi ‘Bahir’ ka bhoot buhat logo~ par sawar hai…what we need is sm exorcist :)

AamirRazs last blog post..“Let the sunlight in.”
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Welcome to my blog :) And who said walait is bad? :P hehe We been living her since ages so kam se kam we cant say that, but yea those type “Auntiyan” are way to unfair… Hmmm..rightly said bahir ka “bhoot” :P “Bhoot” does lots of damage sometimes… Be blessed!

~BholiBhali

]]> By: Meher http://www.bholibhali.com/2008/09/sharmindagi-ya-proudness/#comment-142 Meher Thu, 18 Sep 2008 18:48:15 +0000 http://www.bholibhali.com/?p=118#comment-142 Interesting topic! As shallow as this whole thing is, given the bad economy of Pakistan, you can't blame mothers for wanting their children to settle abroad. I had a friend in high school who got married at age 19 to a man in his forties who was a physician in UK. She has kids, a beautiful house, and flies to see her family a few times a year. I haven't had a chance to ask her if she is content, though. ****************************** <em><strong>Welcome to my Blog Meher :) And thanx for your views on this... 1st I wud like to just clear one thing that I by no mean tried 2 or did blame the mothers, as I personally dont think we can judge Any1 at all...BUT... we definitely need to Try to do our best to stop these type thinking and let those who think such know this aint the right attitude towards life, in hope of any change! Neither i meant that one shudnt marry a man with age as double as the girl or wise versa, the thing is that marry a man just coz he lives abroad is something i wud say again is really pathetic thought, let it be for economy or what so ever... Mana ke every parent wants the best for their kids, but showing it this way? well quite cheapie way! I hope your friend is living happy and having a healthy relationship, Allah bless her, InshAllah... I also know abt a girl who lived in our neighbour in Pakistan, she got married when she were 21 to man who 42, but they accepted the Rishta only coz he lived in Europe, well It would be very long post if I get into details but he used to beat her up, and at the end once he just couldnt resist trapping her and throw her down from the balcony, she died at the spot, leaving behind two baby girls at age 2 and 3, and u know what that "abroad man" didnt even face a case against him.............May her soul rest in peace! Jo jiske naseeb mein ho wo use mil kar rehta hai.... So I guess every1 talks from their experience and what they have seen around, One should never ever ever cross the limit, and accepting a proposal only coz girl/guy is living out of country is not only sad, its absurd and pathetic as anything can get... :) .... Be blessed! ~BholiBhali</strong></em> Interesting topic! As shallow as this whole thing is, given the bad economy of Pakistan, you can’t blame mothers for wanting their children to settle abroad. I had a friend in high school who got married at age 19 to a man in his forties who was a physician in UK. She has kids, a beautiful house, and flies to see her family a few times a year. I haven’t had a chance to ask her if she is content, though.
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Welcome to my Blog Meher :) And thanx for your views on this… 1st I wud like to just clear one thing that I by no mean tried 2 or did blame the mothers, as I personally dont think we can judge Any1 at all…BUT… we definitely need to Try to do our best to stop these type thinking and let those who think such know this aint the right attitude towards life, in hope of any change!

Neither i meant that one shudnt marry a man with age as double as the girl or wise versa, the thing is that marry a man just coz he lives abroad is something i wud say again is really pathetic thought, let it be for economy or what so ever… Mana ke every parent wants the best for their kids, but showing it this way? well quite cheapie way! I hope your friend is living happy and having a healthy relationship, Allah bless her, InshAllah… I also know abt a girl who lived in our neighbour in Pakistan, she got married when she were 21 to man who 42, but they accepted the Rishta only coz he lived in Europe, well It would be very long post if I get into details but he used to beat her up, and at the end once he just couldnt resist trapping her and throw her down from the balcony, she died at the spot, leaving behind two baby girls at age 2 and 3, and u know what that “abroad man” didnt even face a case against him………….May her soul rest in peace! Jo jiske naseeb mein ho wo use mil kar rehta hai….

So I guess every1 talks from their experience and what they have seen around, One should never ever ever cross the limit, and accepting a proposal only coz girl/guy is living out of country is not only sad, its absurd and pathetic as anything can get… :) …. Be blessed!

~BholiBhali

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