Meri Zindagi kis adhori rah par gamzan hai,
Jahan na manzil hai na musafir hai,
Na rasta hai Na rahi
Yeh zindagi kidhar ko behti ja rahi hai,
Jahan na lehrein hain na darya
Na kinara hai na moujein,
Zindagi kis nagar ki mehmaan thehri,
Jahan na izzat hai na ulfat
Na chahat hai na Mohabbat,
Zindagi is ne to fana ho jana hai
Phir yeh kyon chalti chali jaa rahi hai,
Our main…
Sirf is aik lamhe ke
Intezar mein hon,
Jab….
Mujhe mera maqsad mil jaye!
Ya…
Mout Aaa jaye!!!
Main apne aas paas dekhti hon to mujhe kabhi kabhi apna aap ajnabhi lagta hai, kabhi apne halaat our kabhi to mujhe apne aas paas ke sare ke saare log ajnabi lagne lagte hain… Mujhe yeh soch baar baar tang karti hai ke kyon main itni magan ho jati hon sometimes is jahan mein…Im just here for visit, Allah sent me to this world to observe, learn, sacrifise, give give and give everything that im blessed with, im just here for the exam, just like koi bhi student collage mein school mein hota hai for exam and jaise wp paper de kar ayega, the result will come… hmmmm this life is a test for life hereafter, the diffrence is ke is exam ka waqt kab khatm ho jaye we never know, we can have all world time and we will have to finish next sec, no idea…….no clue…..
Hum sab kaisi dhorh mein chale jaa rahe hain, apni hi dhundh mein lage hue hain, we dont have time to take a break and look at life, look at the beauty of nature, we love to have pure friendship in life but we dont have time to make effort and give time to friends as the deserve, we want to have the ideal relationships but we dont give the relationship quality time,we struggle for a peaceful life, we work for pleasent days now and those to come, wo earn money to live life we desire and then we dont spend money so that we dont ran out of money and get poor or what so ever….
BUT….
Will that time come? hopeful you will say hai na, umeed to rakhni chahiye na, right? but is it really neccessary for any indiviual to have so many hopes? does Life really deserves to be left on umeedein? I dont understand sometimes and it confuses me… that if we are abt to go on any trip, lets say just for two day or maybe even one day let go weeks and months, hum kitna saaman rakhte hain, kitna luggage rakhte hain, kyon? isliye ke mushkil na ho, so that we dont have to face any difficulty and so on….But… wo jurney ke jis pe humein jane kab, kis gharhi, without any warning jana parh jaye, uske liye luggage kya rakha hua hai humne? yea…. some ppl are blessed and fortunately they do think abt it and they do collect they luggage their samaan for that jurney (Life after death), but unfortunately there are so many lovely ppl who thinks that they got plenty of time… how sad hmmm!
We take so many things for granted, so many baatein, so many ppl, so many relations… and then when we get TIME/WAQT from all our activities and we finally feel like succeed in life and know can let them know we love them, we care for them, we appriciate the little thing they do…The TIME is over hmmm, and we might not even get the chance to say anything at all… hum kyon karte hain aisa hmmm, humein nahin karna chahiye aisa… we should value what really matter, jo karna hai aaj karna hoga, abhi karna hoga, we cant wait, we shudnt wait for the next day for the next pal…. do we have any guarantee for that pal? no we dont…..
Kafan ki na to pocket hoti hai, our na hi grave mein humein kuch sath le jane ki ijazat, jo humare sath jayega wo hai humare amaal, our good deeds, jo pyar jo chahat jo waqt humne kisi ko diya hoga, uska asar, uska reward, jo dard humne kisika banta hoga uske badle mein duayein, humare parents ki hidmat ka sila… wo jab sirf hum honge our humare amaal…Allah ki rehmat ke muhtaaj aaj bhi hain tab bhi honge! Kehte hain na ke kal jinhe humne apni judai ka ghum deke jana hai, kyon na aaj unhe koi khushi di jaye..Yeh ladaiyan yeh jhagrhe, yeh koi kis ne bura keh diya to bura maan jana..anaa ko khud pe itna sawaar kar lena ke zindagi ki khubsurti hi na dikhe, yeh sab baatein only tabhi hua karti hain jab bouhat badkismati ka saya ho…ummm and one shud know this much that It Does NOT have to be like this
Life is a precious gift, we shudnt waste it just like that…..ummm…
I just love these wordings of a song:
“Duniya mein leke aye the kya,
Leke jayeinge kya…
Baat yeh hai ke jab hum na honge,
Yaad ayeinge kya….”
So isliye…














September 14th, 2008 at 12:22 pm
MashAllah bohat hi acha likha aur bohat hi thought provoking bhi. Sach kaha aaj kal hum kis kis cheez ke peeche bhagte hein.. har uss cheez ke jo humare sath nahi jayegi hmm Allah bless you bholibhali ..
Wakas Mirs last blog post..Murghe badhe wade hein
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Thanx Wakas for taking out time and reading thru my thoughts
Its sad na ke hum bouhat ziyada sochte abt things jo yehin reh jaani and kam sochte abt kaam ko humare kaam ane hmmmm…. Be blessed..
~BholiBhali
September 14th, 2008 at 12:44 pm
You seem to be a deep poetess.
Main ager apni society ki bat karoon tou ham aksar aisay he zindgi guzartey hian bina kissi maqsad kahin, hain na!
baqi aap ne saaman and money ki bat ki hai to read this article of Javed Chaudry,
http://www.express.com.pk/images/NP_LHE/20080914/Sub_Images/1100482944-2.gif
Beautiful thoughts BB.
Sory I used to name u BB as ur nickname. Hope so u wudn’t mind? Umeed pe dunya qaim hain
Tell me otherwise I’ll take back this nick name.
MZs last blog post..Ramadaan Kareem
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1st thanx for ur comment
well I dont think kisiki bhi, absoulutely none ki zindagi be-maqsad hoti hai, its just that some ppl cant “find” the maqsad of their lives….
One shud be thankful in every situation and not be in the race of only this Life, but also have in mind that we are here for just “some” time!
and thanx for the article link, it sure is something to learn from, if you read what i have written properly, its nothing diff… my andaz bit dif but my matlab wohi hai…
And yea its oki i wont mind BB, why woud I
but it sound like BB JI thou hehe… be blessed!
~BholiBhali
September 15th, 2008 at 3:21 am
Boht khub likha hai aap ne
Mujhey bhi aksar aisey khayalaat aatey hain ke main kiyoun is dunya aur jindagi ke baarey main itna tension lerahi houn, jabke jindagi ka tho bharosa hi nahi. Akhirat ke baarey main sochna aur uski tayyari main busy rehney main hi humari bhalayi hai.
Life is what’s constantly visible to us: family, friends, relatives, jobs, house, car, and so forth. So we strive for something that provides as a gain/profit/benefit that we can actually see.
If death and what comes after it is similarly visible to us, I doubt we would care for this world and our life in it anymore.
Nadias last blog post..The Boy From Burundi
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Thanx for ur views Nadia sis, Appriciated
Wohi baat hai na sis that we go for whats visible for us, but uske sath yeh bhi to hai ke death is quite obvious to us, but hum ankhein band kar lete hain…Like there wont go a single day when we wont hear that someone somehow passed away, may their soul rest in peace and so on, now thats a very good remeinder to us I believe, but we still running and running towards life over here and not for life herafter hmmm…
We cant give up living, but we are loosing the balance hmm …. Be blessed, lots duas
~BholiBhali
September 16th, 2008 at 4:04 am
Nice thoughts and interesting post. Most of peoples think about dunya but not for aakhirat.
And thanx for ur suggestion, will InshAllah try that, but I dont think i can stop writing roman urdu
Im tooo much used to it hehe… be blessed!
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well, writing posts in roman Urdu is not a good choice even you can type Unicode urdu easily. (just a suggestion)
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Thanx for coming by and, Well if ppl think abt duniya thats well and good, but what not good is to think ONLY abt duniya na
~BholiBhali
September 16th, 2008 at 5:34 am
bas itna hi kehna hai bholi bhali apne meethi meethi baaton se yunhi sab ke dilon ko munawwar karte raho aur apni khoobsurat sochon se sab ko ek nayi raah dete jaao…dua hai zor-e-kalam aur barhe aur yunhi apne nek khayalaat se sab ko aapas main pyaar karna sikha jaao.
bless u sis..:)
aarzoos last blog post..In Search Of Peace
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Awww Arzoo sis, me bit :shy: and :ooops: now
Thanx so much for itne pyare pyare comment ka, apki duayein sath hain, InshAllah all will stay good… Allah bless you and your family always
~BholiBhali
September 16th, 2008 at 11:45 am
Aap ki Shayri aur app ka khyalaat ne mujh par itna asar kya ke me parne ke baad fauran meri Ma ke paas gya aur achi baate and being nice to her karne ki try ki. Sorry my urdu is’nt very good *embarassed*
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Bouhat shukriya for such sweet comment, hum insan aik doosre keliye bas wasila hi to bante hain…Im glad if my any post somehow helped you with anything good, Parents are indeed a very precious gift! They deserve our all respect,care and love..
Be blessed!
~BholiBhali
September 16th, 2008 at 11:46 pm
Roman Urdu ki adat hi hai na, chut jaey gi
well, kabhi esa erada ho aur koi technical help chahiye ho to mujhe hukm kiya jasakta hai.
jesa ke mein khud bhi urdu blogging kar raha hoon aur apne logo’n ko bhi urdu ki taraf la raha hoon 
But u see mujhe adat nahin roman udru ki, I infact just love writing this way
*shy*……. And Apki site is quite interesting, ill InshAllah learn Unicode urdu as well, I infact tried but failed hehe…
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Well thanx for the help offer Raahbar bhai
~BholiBhali
September 17th, 2008 at 6:59 am
Wonderful, aur zyada kya keh sakthi hun. Aapne sab kuch toh bayan kar diya aur hum loonko sochne par maajboor kardiya ab mujhe kehne keliye kuch bachaa hi nahin.Love you and love your thoughts. Keep writing and sharing your wonderful thoughts with us.God Bless
Saanjs last blog post..Sensitiveness
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Thanx Saanj
that was so shweet of you…. But u cant get away with this that I left nothing for u to add, coz u got lots to learn me my lovely, isliye ke.. i love the way you think
Be blessed!
~BholiBhali
January 17th, 2009 at 8:19 am
MashAllah bohat hi acha likha hai apne. waki ye woi likhe skta hai , jo zindagi ka mafhoum janta ho.
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Bouhat shukriya, duas!
~BholiBhali
June 13th, 2009 at 11:11 pm
Mashallah bohet true batay ap nay likhee hai.ager apnay tour pay her koie ye soch lay tu duniya hi badal jaye.Maa ki kokh bachay kay liye kaber ki manand hi tu hai.kaha maa ko kuch bata sakta hai .kay us pay kiya guzer rahe hai.tanha ata hai.bohet piyaray rishtou kay hotay howie bi tunahiye door kernay kay chaker may tanha duniya say rawana hu jata hai.bus ye life hai.Allah ki pak zaat hai na.ye choti say life ka safer kabee second pay khatam hota hai or kabee 16 baras ki umer jasa kay merey batay Umair nay ye mukhtasir time merey sath zuara or rawana hu giya.or koie ziyada say ziyada 100 baras ka hu jaye ga.lakin wapisee tu baherhaal hai na.bus Allah Tallah anjaam khair say hu or sab pay karam ki barish hu AAmeen.
June 16th, 2009 at 2:17 am
Hey Bholibhali,
I was actually looking for the first lines of this shayri that ends wid “saaman sau baras ka aur pal ki khabar nahi” When I googled I found this wonderful shayri full of feelings, experience and facts of life. Great going, keep it up.
anyway if anyone of u can remember the shayri m looking for, pls post in here.
Thanks
“kar lo ikatthe chahe jitne bhi heere moti, magar itna yaad rahe kafan mei jeb nahi hoti”