Hmmmm weird heading na? I know I know but baat yeh hai ke jo baat mere mind mein ghoom rahi hai wo heading se ziyada weird hai, ya kam se kam mujhe to bouhat ajeeb ghareeb and badnaseeb lagti hain aisi baatein….. Some call it “Gossip” Some call it “Bakwas” some call it “Breaking news” and for some this is LIFE; UNfortunately!!!!!! …..I call it waste of time and Pathetic habit
Im not like this (bit in ghussa/Afsos mode) usualy, Alhamdulilla i try to stay calm and I really dont pay much attention to talks that have no sar na paon, aisi baatein ke jo sirf for the sake of talking log kar jate hain… infact mujhe hansi ati hai and I feel sorry for such ppl who dont have anything better to do and no purpose with their lives, jo sirf is talaash mein rehte hain ke yeh yahan ki baat udhar anudhar ki baat udhar karein, in other words voluntary low-life “Postman/Women” is what i would call them hmmm…
Aaj humare ghar aik “aunty” ayin, u know “postwomen” …And ofcourse bin bulaye, coz we never invite her as we know her nature, but jo ghar ke darwaze par aajaye we cant just NOT open the door, (though i really wished we could hehe) yea so she came to visit us as according to her “Inne din ho gaye, barhi yaad aa rahi thi etc etc” yea right!!!! well she started her work, jo tha udhar ki idhar, well idhar se to unhe milna kuch nahin tha kyon na to main and na hi my mum kabhi un se kuch kaha hai, Ami tried to ignore her and said that well Allah mian ki duniya mein har tarha ke log hote hain, Allah hidaiyat de and so on…. “Aunty ji” thoda chup ho gayin and when she dekha ke hmmmmm yahan to koi baat nahin ban rahi, aajka dil khaali gya, so what she did was she said something abt our family hmmm oki she said someting abt ME, what she said im sorry i cant share
maybe in password protected post
hehe…kehne lagin ke wo she said this and that and this and that and haahaye is that true?!! I was like a burning fire at that sec, my mum was shocked and was like quiet as if she lost her awaz kahin or something…. well what I did, I took my cell and i simply called that aunty she were talking abt…. kya ittefaq ke aunty ne hi phone uthaya, when i said ke mujhe ap se sirf aik baat poochna hai ke kya ap ne yeh and yeh baat ki hai, she were like TOUBA kya keh rahi ho, mere to khwab o khyal mein bhi nahin aisi koi gal…. Bas.. I said shukriya bas yeh “Aunty ji” bata rahi thin and mujhe thoda confirm karana tha…. ………………. oki well what happend nxt mujhe batane ki zaroorat nahin hogi :P that was just choti si real kahani, or eks i wanted to share….
Im a strong believer that “Ap doosron ke Aib buri adaat chupao, Allah apke chupayega” but why i shared this was bcoz, aise log jinhe aisi baton and waste of time ke siwa kuch kaam nahin, unhe haqeeqat mein hum khud shair/lion karte hain, confirm na karwa ke, coz agar kisike sath zara si ranjish hai kisiki to the third person will definitely try their shot….. Mujhe nahin pata kyon yeh habit hoti hai kuch logon ki, and to be honest mujhe koi shouq bhi nahin jan’ne ka, I just want ppl to get a purpose of life, jiyein and jeene dein… wo baatein jo ke mujhe kahin pata bhi nahin doosron ke gharon mein like mouzoo bani hon abt me, I really dont appriciate that, and im sure not many of you out there sensible human beings that has their lives to live do that either….
Yea well aik tarha se faida hi hota hai, coz jab koi gheebat karta hai kisiki to wo apni naikiyan uske naam kar raha hota hai, so wow bethe bithaye we earning sawaab ummmm… nice but no thanx….
Kehte hain na ke agar kisi ko ap ne even gaali bhi di hai na to in the next life jahan paise to honge nahin, kuch samaan to hoga nahin ke de kar insaan bach jaye, wahan phir apne amaal se hisab kitaab hoga, jo kisika bura kiya use apni koi naiki de kar muaf karwana hoga, and agar koi naiki na hui to uska gunah apne sar lena parhga koi….Allah bachaye, and hidaiyat de…B4 its tooo late!!!! Ameen…














September 4th, 2008 at 5:38 pm
Acha to ye baat ghoom rahi thi dimagh mein ji.. Allah hidayat de aisi auntion ko jo ke bas ek hi cheez janti hei idhar ki udhar aur udhar ki idhar batein karna.. n thx for sharing ke ainda me bhi phone karon jab koi aunty aise karengi
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Ameen to your dua, and yea do this phone-idea if any aunty tell u any gossip
ull be surprised, and so will she
~BholiBhali
September 5th, 2008 at 12:15 am
Hehe bholibhali just one word I loved how you dealt with it, mei bhi aise hi karthi hun seedha call karke poochthi hun ki aap ne aise kaha kuch
I just wanted to say that. Haan we have a lot of jobless mindless such gossip mongers jinko gossip karna aur galat baath ko idhar udhar baantna is the onli spice in thier life.
I have a way of looking at anything spoken about me n my family, chalo we are famous enough to be spoken about & will be in the headlines till they find someone else to talk about
it anyway doesnt change who we are na 
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You are so alike me Saanj hehe
and No it definitely dont change who we are, does it
Thanx for reading and letting me know u views… Love duas always…
~BholiBhali
~BholiBhali
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September 5th, 2008 at 12:04 pm
Wow!! That was brave of you to call that other aunty right at the moment. Totally counterattack that gossipy aunty’s strike!
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September 5th, 2008 at 6:06 pm
Hmmm…. Bholibhali ji, actually bat yeh hai, kay in our society yeh jahalat hai kay ham gheebat kartey hain. Aik bat kissi ne kahi hai,
Ordinary log woh hotey hian jo logon ko discuss kehtey hian, better woh hotey hain jo events ko discuss kertay hain and best woh hotey hain jo ideas ko discuss kertay hian, so we should go for the best.
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Yehi to im trying to say here ke yeh jahalat nahin karni chahiye, humare paas apne aap ko sudhare ka itna kam waqt hai, to doosron ke baare ghalt batein karne ka waqt kahan se nikal ata hai hmm… Nice quote and true as well… Shukriya for ur views and be blessed!
~BholiBhali
September 8th, 2008 at 6:25 am
hehe, very well said “Ap doosron ke Aib buri adaat chupao, Allah apke chupayega”. Waisey gheebat ki koi jagah nahi islam main as Huzur Sallellahu Alaihuwa Sallam ne farmaya ke;
“The inmates of Hell are of five types:
the (carefree) who pursue (everything irrespective of the fact that it is good or evil) and who do not have any care for their family or for their wealth
those dishonest people whose greed cannot be concealed even in the case of minor things;
who betrays you morning and evening, in regard to your family and your property.
the miser
the liar and
those who are in the habit of abusing people, and using obscene and foul language.
Sahih Muslim Hadith 6853 Narrated by Hadrat Iyad ibn Himar (r.a.)
aur bhi kai hadith’s hain jaisey;
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:
“Sometimes one may utter a word without thinking whether it is right or wrong and because of that he may slip down in the Fire as far away as the East is from the West.”
Hadith No. 837 Narrated by Hazrat Abu Huraira(r.a.) Sahih Bukhari Book 81, Chapter 23
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Be blessed
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Thanx for reading thru and for sharing these baatein and hadith… If every indiviual only could follow them, zindagi would have been so easy and so peaceful
~BholiBhali