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Dosti aik aisa lafz hai jo waise suna to sab ne hoga lekin iske mefhoom se waqif kam kam hi nazar ate hain, Haan dawa to sahiyad har koi karta ho ke wo janta hai Dosti kya hoti hain, our kaise nibhayi jaati hai, our yahan tak ke unhe to yeh bhi gumaan hota hoga ke unse barh kar koi doosra Dosti ke baare kuch ziyada nahin janta na bata sakta hai, hmmm ajeeb baat na har koi samjhta hai ke uski wakfiyat Dosti se sabse ziyada hai Kya yeh isliye hai ke Dosti bas aik aam si cheez hai ya isliye ke bouhat khaas hai ke har koi Dost ipar bouhat kuch keh sakta hai, bata sakta hai, sikha sakta hai…. Sochne ki baat yeh hai ke main bhi to unhi mein shamil hon jo Dosti ke baare bouhat kuch keh sakte hain hehe Lekin nahin main Dosti ke baare kuch nahin jaanti, main to kuch our baat kehne jaa rahi hon jo mere dil mein hai, Lekin agar yeh baat Dosti tak jaa pohnchi to haan shaiyad mujhe Dosti ke baare thoda bouhat maloom hai

Dosti aik pakizgi hai, aik aisa ehsas jo Allah do dilon mein dhalta hai to wo phir kabhi kam nahin hota na madham parhta hai, haan now im talking abt real Dosti, yon to log Dosti ke naam ko Dosti jazbe ko bouhat badnaam bhi karte hain unfortunately… lekin yeh unke amaal, Us baat par main phir kabhi likhongi… Iswaqt mujhe khoya rehne dein Us masoom Dosti ki us khubsurti mein jise dekhne ko Allah bas kisi kisi ko hi nazar bakhshta hai And Alhamdulilla I feel blessed to have that ability inside me

Haan to kya hai Dosti? Aik ehsah? Aik jazba? ya phir sirf a lafz? Jo insan ki zindagi ko badal kar rakh deta hai, Dosti ka hum par kya haq hai humare Dosti par kya faraiz hain, yeh baat samjhne ko Dosti ko samjhna zaroori hota hai.. Kisi our ki baat karte kuch khaas maza nahin ata hehe Acchi ya na acchi, interesting ya boring jo bhi hai main apni aaj baat karti hon… Meri zindagi mein Dosti bouhat pyare se andaz mein shamil hai, meri yaadon mein, meri baaton mein, and mere wojud mein aise rachi basi hai ke alfaz hi nahin jin mein bayaan ho sake…. Mere nazdeeq Dosti zindagi hai, jiske bina main kabhi bhi mukamil nahin reh sakti, ya shaiyad mukamil to har insan waise h hota hai, lekin jis tarha Dosti ne mere dil ko meri soch ko mujhe nikhara hai, mujhe jeena sikhaya hai, mere liye to Dosti hi Zindagi hai…..

Afsos is baat ka hota hai ke kabhi kabhi hum Dosti mein milawat kar jate hain, like agar meri Dost mujhe chahegi to main chahongi, jaise wo mujhse baat karegi waise main karongi, these kind of baatein na… But then sochne wali yeh baat hai agar Allah na kare kisiki Dost is jahan se chali jaye, Raza-e-Ilahi juda ho jaye to kya ap bhi sath samaan tayar karogi? hmmmm nahin na, to phir aise hi hona chahiye ke bas chahtein lootao, muhabatein lootao our Allah pe chorh do ke wo apke liya kya likhta hai Yaqeen karein kayi darje ziyada hi milega…..

Dosti to itni masoom cheez hai ke agar ise sahi tarha se treat kiya jaye is se pyar kiya jaye, ise samjha jaye our poore dil o jaan se nibhaya jaye to yeh itne khubsurat tohfe ata karti hai ke insan khairaan reh jata hai, Dosti jab dukh ko adha karti hai to lagta hai koi takleef hai hi nahin, Dosti jab khushi ko dobala karti hai to mehsoos hota hai ke Khushiyan bas yehi pe aakar khatm ho jaati hain, Dosti mushkil waqt mein sahara hai to acche waqt mein muskaan, Dosti wo hai jo apko duniya ke nashaib-o-faraz se aashna karwati hai, itna kuch shaiyad maa baap nahin sikha pate jitna yeh sikhlati hai, itna kuch shaiya Usatza(teachers) nahin suljha pate jitna yeh suljhati hai….. Jeene ka andaz hi bada deti hai zindagi, our itna kuch deti hain ke main aksar khairan reh jati hon ke koi itna belous our itna mazboot rishta ho bhi sakta hai kahin….mere liye to filhaal nahin hai

Mujhe Dosti ne wo diya hai jiske liye main Allah ka our Dosti ka jitna shukar ada karon kam hi hoga, Isliye jab koi Dosti ko our iske naam ko badnaam karta hai to mujhe bouhat takleef hoti hai, dil toot sa jata hai mere, ke Itne nazuk yet mazboot risthe ko kaise koi yon pairon tale round jate hain, very sad….. Qadar karni chaiye us ehsas ki jo Allah dilon mein dhalta hain our nahin kar sako to phir khud ke liye dua karo coz then ur really in trouble……

Meri dua hai Allah duniya ke har fard ko sacchi Dosti se milaye, so that they can understand and feel what im talking abt Allah har kisiko Dosti se Dosti karaye, Ameen! Our har koi dosti ka waise Ehtraam (respect) kare jaise iska haq banta hai………………… (hehe Dosti koi kisi ladki ka naam nahin, Its A Blessing)

Thanx so much from bottom of my heart to my saheli, jisne mujhe Dosti se aashna karwaya our mujhe jeene ka aisa ghur sikhaya ke mujhe zindagi har haal mein pyari lagti hai, May her soul rest in peace, and InshAllah aik din hum phir se saath hongi, I miss you my Dosti Lekin tum humesha mere sath ho, meri baaton mein, mere iradon mein meri yaadon mein, mere dil mein our Meri Duaoon mein, humesha!! :))